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The decluttering skillset: understanding your clutter profile

9/7/2016

 
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Knowing your ‘clutter profile’ will determine your decluttering path and, ultimately, your success. You should have understood by now that there is a link between the way we feel about our things and the way we behave when it comes to our things. This link and the knowledge of our feelings are important bits of information that can help you determine which clutter personality you have and how to best approach decluttering as the person that you are.
Are you holding on to stuff?

Are you having a hard time throwing out certain things because you think you might need them some day? Do you hold on to things solely because they provide prestige? Do you own items that are broken and you have intended to mend for the last couple of years?

All these things are signs of an innate quality in us humans to hold on to stuff because of a fear of deprivation, that we might never get one just like it again. This idea has been burned into our brains for a long time, as a species and as individuals. Having lived through wars, famine or natural disasters has made it very clear that we might need some things again sooner or later.

These days, holding on to stuff has become a bit of an issue, because not only do we generally live in small quarters – at least the city dwellers tend to do so – but also has a lot more stuff become available to a larger part of the population.
  • Think about it: Do you have a piece of clothing sitting somewhere waiting to be mended? Or a chair with a leg that needs fixing? If you had those for more than 6 months, waiting for you to take action, it stands to reason that you do not actually need them. Fix them NOW or get rid of these things! They only make you feel bad, are constant reminders of things to do, nothing else. They take up space and are useless to you.

Are you a creature of habit?

A habit can easily lead to clutter: once something is sitting in a particular place it starts to fade into the scenery and on those rare occasions that we realise it is there, we don’t quite feel the need to throw it out. We get used to it being there and we live our lives around the ‘foreign’ object. While we seem to get on perfectly fine with this thing, it is a nagging reminder at a subconscious level that we really should do something about it, but don’t. Now that’s what I call negative reinforcement.
  • In order to determine what you keep out of habit and which items really matter to you, you need to get a new perspective on your stuff. Concentrate on one small area and imagine preparing for a move: which things would you really want to see in your new place? Put those aside and then take a look at what’s left: are those things you need or want, really? If not, now is your chance to let go!

Are you a collector?

When we think of collectors, images of crazy-eyed madmen and people cloistered in their overcrowded basement come to mind. But then we could all be considered ‘collectors’ in our own right. Do you have more books than fit your bookcases? Do you own more pairs of shoes than strictly necessary? Have you been chasing that missing DVD of a series that you own? Do you have a box where you store things to be used for craft projects that never happen? Well, I’m happy to confirm that you might be a collector.
All these things could be considered a collection. Why? They evoke thoughts like “I want to complete the set”, and that is what a collection does. Once a collection has started it is hard, but not impossible to break that chain of events.
  • Once you have identified a collection of things, determine if it holds special meaning to you, if there is any real emotional attachment to the items. If there is none, you may want to discard the items by selling them, giving them away or even chucking them out. Remember: there is no attachment, really. Just habit and that Pokémon urge of “gotta catch them all”.

Do you get emotional about your stuff?

Do a lot of your things serve as reminders of memories, good and bad? If so, you probably have a shelf full of holiday memorabilia, some children’s toys, chipped cups and plates, or several boxes of things you have not looked at in a while (probably stored in your attic or garage or in a cupboard behind other stuff). If you feel perfectly happy to keep all of those, by all means, do! However, while you will most certainly wish to hold on to things that you associate with the good times, there is also a point to be made for letting go of items that hold bad memories.

It’s hard to let go of items that are emotionally charged either way, but there is something to be said to let go of the bad memories to be able to move on, and to create more good ones in the future. You really do not need a reminder of those bad times, and you certainly do not want to reinforce the memories by being confronted with them all the time. You’ll find that those “bad memory items” tend to hold key positions in your home, and that does not help to make you feel at home, at all.
  • Try to find your “bad memory items” and think about why you are keeping them, one at a time. If you only keep this item out of habit or obligation, let it go. If you feel strongly that it should stay in your life, try to figure out why exactly that is. It is likely that you cannot find a real reason for keeping it after all. In that case, consider letting go.

Letting go

These four types of clutter (broken, habitual, emotional items and collections) make up the majority of items in our house. If we really want to make space in our homes as well as calm our mind, we should consider getting rid of these. Each category requires a slightly different approach, but all of them have one thing in common: you need to figure out why your mind cannot let go and make peace with whatever holds you back. And then let go of the associated stuff.
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